Shri Mataji (Holy Mother) is the patron of the six-million-member Indian mission founded by her husband, who died in 1966. Their son and his 26-year-old American wife, formerly his secretary, have a 2-month-old daughter and have adjusted to a life-style that includes mansions and fancy cars. At his Divine Light headquarters in Denver, a spokesmän described the "removal" of the guru as "ridiculous" and said that his mother, during a recent United States visit, tried to gain control of the mission here but "lived exactly the life-style of her son." Maharaj Ji, the spokesman said, is an his way to India.